1. Be realistic about each other.
Don’t try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let’s
face it, guys-there’s only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even
she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand
that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the
help of a few facials ! or treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has
already been taken, so u’re gonna have to do with what ur guy is like!
Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner
than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving
issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don’t make
assumptions about each other’s feelings. Learn to xpress urself better
so that ur partner undrstands what u’re angry about, or hurt about, or
even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart,
it’s the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve
urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are
interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or
jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him
once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3
seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at
window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her
girlfriends for “that sort of activities” instead. If u’re spending
more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it’s a warning
sign that u’re drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the “The_Rock”
print, u shouldn’t kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room
tidy. There’s gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship,
so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have
been together for 5years. It’s wonderful to continue showing someone
that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a
Valentine’s Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can’t wear ( like for
decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or
pack his wardrobe for him…so he knows u can still be romantic and
loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to
laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an
inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and
make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other’s feelings
and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don’t bring up the happy things about
u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And
guys, don’t talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or
mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal
feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b’cos u are
gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.< /P>
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru’ spells of insecurity at the beginning of the
relationship, but don’t translate that insecurity into jealousy. If
u’re gonna go through ur partner’s mail and cupboard, and
eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong – with u!!!
Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru’ the relationship
before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and
breaking promises, u need to talk! If u’re in a relationship, make ur
partner ur priority and don’t disappoint them if u can help it. It’s
really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then
calls to cancel it. Don’t make promises u can’t keep. If ur partner
starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the
morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say
“be honest”, we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being
bitingly cruel. When u’re hurt, say so, and when u’re angry, tell
him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can’t be honest with ur partner,
who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a
relationship where no honesty exists probabl! y isn’t worth it!
10 Things To Do To Be A Better Lover
November 4, 2011 by sammy21male
1. Be realistic about each other.